Making of the Shot:
Relationships are meant to build into something strong with foundation regardless if it’s a friendship, business relationship or falling in love. They are built upon trust. Once that trust is lost typically the relationship is gone as well.
We have heard over the years that a picture can tell a thousand words. This picture shows Diana and I many things, the meaning of what her and I have. When we think of our relationship together we think of trust, unity, strength, power, security, love, calmness and amazing. This picture captures these words all in one for us. When the right person comes along , they make you a better person, they make your weaknesses stronger. There is no better feeling then being able to give love and to feel love.
Over the years I have been in relationships or dated people who were not typically the best choice in the world for me. We have all been through this or going through this now. I would typically go for the same type of girl, very pretty outside coating but empty on the inside, what I call a “Hollow Chocolate Easter Bunny”. Where you feel like you are in it because you are trying to fix someone rather then trying to build the proper foundation for a life of happiness. What I needed to do at that point was take care of me and get myself to the point of figuring out what was best for me instead of going through the same cycle over and over. When you are 100% you then can be 100% for someone else. You will be aware of what and who is right for you. Until you take care of that you will continue making the same choices over and over and spinning your wheels in that puddle you have been in for years.
When Diana came along it was the easiest relationship I had ever been in. Was almost a too good to be true type feeling. A few months after meeting Diana moved and it’s been amazing ever since. I’m sharing this story with you because you need to know that you can be happy too regardless of what you are in right now. Are you that fixer, that life changer? If you’re going to try and fix people at least get your degree and get paid for it. You cannot change people unless they 100% want change. It is best to not go through that change while in a relationship, it can be very damaging. People get scared that they will not find someone else, like our parents used to say there are lots of fish in the sea, we have the power of the internet, I found mine in Texas you need to take care of YOU. When you do that you will be aware of when the right one comes along.
You deserve to be happy; do not let anyone make you think differently.
Have a great rest of the week
Micah LaCerte- Personal trainer/Life Coach/Lifestyle coach
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Very inspirational Micah! I’m going thru this right now. It’s pretty funny that you post something regarding this…as if i was meant to read this yo remind me to keep at it! Thanks!
Wonderful article! True dat!!
Thank you…